Thursday, July 15, 2010

Life Day

Yesterday was a special day for us. Last July 14th was the day that our sweet baby boy was conceived. It was a day filled with anxiety and fear, then joy and hope - we didn't know what to expect with the egg retrieval and, truth be told, I went in with low expectations so that I wouldn't once again be devastated. But on this day, one year ago, the embryologist told us that our eggs looked good. And then our baby was created.

A gal whose blog I used to follow called this day "Life Day" - the day that her baby was given life. This has always stuck with me - and now, here I am, celebrating our own life day with a beautiful four month old baby boy. I can't believe that it's been a year! It definitely seems like yesterday that we were on that rollercoaster...the ups and downs seemed neverending. But the end result was worth the tumultuous ride.

Mason continues to amaze us each day. He learned to roll over from his back to his front on Canada Day, while on a visit to his Granny and Grampa's in Kelowna. We had him sleeping in the Kidco Pea Pod (a travel bed that looks like a miniature tent) - and at the end of one of his afternoon naps, I found him face down on the carpet of the guest room at my in-laws'...he had rolled out of the tent!! Poor little guy was wailing and flailing his little arms...he has since learned to better control the rolling, and is just beginning to get the hang of rolling back onto his back. It has been a worrisome couple of weeks, though, with Mason rolling onto his tummy to sleep. The first couple of nights were pretty much sleepless for me - I was constantly waking up to check on him. But according to the many "experts" (read: Mommies) on "Dr. Google", there isn't anything to worry about - as long as the crib is empty of all blankets, bumper pads and toys. It seems that if a baby is old enough to roll, he is old enough to stay safe.

I love when he keeps me company during the day. My favourite thing to do is to place him in his Bumbo chair and situate him in the kitchen so that he can watch me cook. He coos and gurgles and we have really great conversations while I'm preparing dinner! He is such a little lovebug, and as time goes on and he becomes more interactive, I find myself falling more and more in love (if that is possible!)

Sigh. Happy Life Day, my sweetie. Although you don't know it, you have filled our lives with amazing sunshine and happiness. We love you!

6 comments:

Mommytobe said...

Life day is such a sweet idea. I reminice on Caileigh's life day too. Guess we have the advantage of knowing exactly when our sweet babies were concieved :)

Tania

Kate said...

He sounds so wonderful! Glad life is going well.

Sarah @ BecomingSarah.com said...

Congratulations on your boy's life day =) That is such a wonderful way to put it, it really is.

zabe77 said...

Wonderful post!

Anonymous said...

Hi there,

I am about to start IVF #2 at RFP, and I would love to be able to ask you a few questions. Would you mind emailing me at CalgaryJB@gmail.com?

Thank you so much.

Springroll said...

Hi Anon -
Are you a member at IVF.ca? If yes, I can PM you there...if not, I encourage you to join (it's a fantastic resource!!) and once you join, you can send me a PM and I'll respond. My member name there is Springroll as well...